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Posts tagged healthy relationships

How to Work with Limerence and Not Against It

Psychologist Dorothy Tennov first described the term in 1979 in her book Love and Limerence: The Experience of Being in Love. Limerence is less grounded than love because it involves a heck of a lot of projection and fantasy. Instead of seeing the other person for who they are, flaws and all, someone in the throes of limerence will ignore red flags because “love conquers all.” They may imagine activities and outings with the other person, how they’ll dress, what they’ll say because at this point, the other person is still a mystery.

How to Heal After Divorce

Life after a divorce can be challenging, but it's important to focus on self-care, build a strong support system, set realistic goals, establish a new routine, let go of resentment, and take things slowly. By taking these steps, you can begin to rebuild your life and find happiness once again.

Working with a skilled therapist can be key in helping to heal the heartbreak that can accompany divorce. There are support groups also, to connect with others who are going through similar experiences.

trauma healingDenise RenyeMarch 1, 2023relationships, relationship, divorce, heartbreak, rela, toxic relationship, relationship recovery, long term relationships, relationship creativity, healthy relationships, abusive relationships, couples therapy

The Hidden form of Incest: Enmeshment

Some folx grew up too soon and were forced to be adults before they were ready. This happens for a variety of reasons and one of those reasons is covert incest, also known as enmeshment. Enmeshment occurs when a parent or caregiver looks to their child for emotional support and psychological validation. In other words, there aren’t strong boundaries within the family. And those strong boundaries are necessary for the safety of the child. They are also necessary for the safety of the parent’s psyche but the child’s psyche is really negatively affected.

Denise RenyeJanuary 10, 2023enmeshment, inner child work, inner child play, inner healing, inner work, inner child, inner teen, stages of inner child work, codependency, parenting, healthy relationships, boundaries, PTSD

Texting Exes, Mask Protesters Galore, and More: Boundaries during COVID-19

How do you identify your boundaries? A good clue comes from feelings. Are you uncomfortable, resentful, stressed, anxious, or fearful? All signs that perhaps your boundaries have been crossed. When boundaries are set and adhered to,

Denise RenyeSeptember 14, 2020boundaries, COVID-19, therapy, healthy relationships

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