Posts tagged family trauma
The Identified Patient: Unraveling the Dynamics and Finding Healing
The Identified Patient: Unraveling the Dynamics and Finding Healing

The identified patient is a complex phenomenon that can have profound effects on a family's dynamics. By understanding the roles, dynamics, and underlying issues associated with the IP, families can embark on a journey of healing and growth. By acknowledging the shared responsibility and committing to open communication and professional support, families can move towards healthier, more harmonious relationships. Remember, true healing occurs when all family members actively participate and work together towards a more fulfilling future.

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Denise Renyeaddiction and recovery, addiction, love addiction, alcoholism, family systems, whole person healing, family trauma, trauma, ptsd, PTSD and sexual assault, san francisco bay area PTSD treatment of dissociation, bay area therapist, bay area psychologist, san francisco, marin county, marin county psychologist
Trauma Response or Procrastination? How to Tell the Difference
Trauma Response or Procrastination? How to Tell the Difference

Many people deal with wanting to put off tasks that are hard, physically and emotionally. Perhaps you are at a job that you don’t really enjoy but stay because it’s financially advantageous. If you find yourself putting tasks off until tomorrow (or the next day…or the next day) and you have had traumatic events or relationships in your life, it may be hard to discern if the avoidance of a task is procrastination or a trauma response. Both trauma response of freeze and procrastination can involve avoidance behavior, but they have different underlying causes and motivations.

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trauma healing, sex therapyDenise Renyetrauma, trauma healing, trauma response, sexual trauma, family trauma, procrastination, PTSD, PTSD and sexual assault
The Alchemy of Acceptance
The Alchemy of Acceptance

When you practice acceptance, you’re no longer focusing outward. You’re no longer trying to change, fix, or control other people and situations so you can feel happy, fulfilled, peaceful, or whatever it is you think will happen if only they did XYZ or if ABC looked different. Instead, you’re keeping the focus on yourself and asking what you can do right now, given these circumstances and these people, to feel the way you want to feel.

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trauma healingDenise Renyeacceptance, PTSD, family trauma, holiday, alchemy, 12 steps
How to Navigate the Holidays without Losing Your Mind
How to Navigate the Holidays without Losing Your Mind

My invitation to you: What if you considered the holidays rest days? What if instead of staying with family for five continuous days you took breaks in between? Or were with them only one to two hours each day? Otherwise, you might need a vacation from your vacation because your “vacation” was so stressful! It can be hard to feel rested if you’re anxious about everything that “needs” to get done during your supposed “downtime.”

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Denise Renyeholidays, holiday seasion, family trauma, healing, trauma
Honor the Dead to Support the Living
Honor the Dead to Support the Living

This time of the year, the veils are the thinnest, some say. It's the witchiest time of the year as we are halfway between the autumn equinox and the winter solstice. The darkness is longer than the light and it's a prime time to reflect on our ancestors, life, and death. Death is inevitable and something that we will all experience. Not only the “big death” at the end of our lives, but also smaller deaths like the end of a relationship, losing a furry companion, or letting go of a behavior.

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Denise Renyedio de los muertos, family trauma, trauma bond, trauma, trauma healing, ptsd, ancestors, ancestor therapy, death