Premarital Counseling

Do you want to take precautionary measures to set your marriage up for success?

"We came to Dr. Renye unsure of what to expect, but hopeful that premarital counseling would somehow strengthen our bond before taking the leap into marriage. Little did we know the profound impact it would have on us. Dr. Renye guided us through conversations we didn't even know we needed to have, gently unraveling layers of our relationship and helping us understand each other on a deeper level. We now feel more equipped, more connected, and more deeply in love than ever before. -H and W, married 2 years

Premarital Counseling is therapy that is a focused and supportive journey designed to empower couples as they embark on the beautiful adventure of marriage. Tailored to the unique needs of each couple, our premarital counseling sessions provide a safe space to explore and strengthen the foundations of their relationship. In a series of collaborative and insightful sessions, couples engage in open conversations, honing communication skills, and addressing potential areas of tension. Our experienced therapists guide couples through discussions on intimacy, shared values, and practical aspects of married life, fostering a deeper understanding and connection. Whether a brief series or an extended program, our premarital counseling services aim to equip couples with the tools and insights necessary for a resilient and fulfilling marriage.

The duration of premarital counseling can vary based on several factors, including the specific needs and goals of the couple, the approach of the therapist, and the frequency of sessions. Typically, premarital therapy is designed to be a short-term, focused intervention aimed at preparing couples for the challenges and joys of marriage.

Many premarital counseling programs consist of a set number of sessions, often ranging from six to 12 sessions, but this can be adjusted based on individual circumstances. Couples may choose to attend sessions weekly or bi-weekly, depending on their schedules and the therapist's recommendations.

The focus of premarital counseling is to help couples build a strong foundation for their marriage by addressing potential areas of conflict, enhancing communication skills, and exploring shared values and goals. The therapist may cover topics such as effective communication, conflict resolution, financial management, intimacy, and expectations within the marriage.

It's essential for couples to communicate openly with their therapist about their specific needs and goals, as this can impact the duration of therapy. Some couples may find that a brief, targeted intervention is sufficient, while others may benefit from ongoing support. Ultimately, the length of premarital therapy is a collaborative decision between the couple and their therapist, tailored to their unique circumstances and objectives.

 
 
 

What is the Process…

Premarital counseling is a structured process designed to prepare couples for the challenges and commitments of marriage through guided discussions, skill-building exercises, and therapeutic interventions.

Typically these sessions range from a total of 6 to 12 sessions.

  1. Introduction and Assessment

  2. Goal Setting

  3. Communication Skills Building

  4. Exploration of Values and Beliefs

  5. Conflict Resolution

  6. Intimacy and Sexuality Discussions

  7. Financial Planning

  8. Family Dynamics and Expectations

  9. Developing a Relationship Toolkit

  10. Follow-Up and Check-Ins

When couples have specialized questions, especially around finances, referrals are provided. This is so that Dr. Renye maintains integrity and remains within her scope of practice.