f you are in or considering a queer platonic relationship, know that your bond is valid and worthy of celebration. Whether you are sharing a home, co-raising a child, being an emergency contact or simply showing up for each other in deep and meaningful ways, your relationship matters. It deserves the same care, recognition, and respect as any other partnership.

In a world that often prioritizes romance, let’s honor the relationships that defy categories. Let’s celebrate all the ways we can love and support each other, queer platonically or otherwise.

It's not my place to label your relationships, but nor is it the place of anyone not in the relationship. What I’m getting at here is that old axiom you’ve likely heard: “Don’t assume because that makes an ‘ass’ out of ‘u’ and ‘me.’” If you see a hetero-appearing couple on the street, in the grocery store, or anywhere else, make a mental note to not straightwash them because truly, you have no idea what someone’s sexuality is until they tell you.